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Value System Template

For Relationships and Life

This is how you know your partner is on the same page or not.

What is a value system?

List

Values are preferences, approaches to life/time/resources, decisions, and expectations that you care about, which paint a certain type of life you find desirable.

Input your values under each of these categories

1. Personal needs 2. Money 3. Current and Future Family 4. Relationship 5. Social capital 6. Time 7. Work 8. Culture 9. Identity 10. Body Values 11. Philosophy

1

Personal Needs

Personal needs are your exact social, professional, skill, quality of life, and lifestyle preferences.

2

Money

List your need for money, how much money, how you spend, how you save, how you protect your assets and grow them.

3

Current and Future Family

People start with a family and often make new families through relationships. Describe how you want those relationships to turn out.

4

Relationships

How important are friends, mentors, partners? How much do you value a legal marriage vs. live-in vs. dating  a life partner?

5

Social Capital

Describe how your effort and time goes into maintaining your friends, family, networks, and which areas you will compromise on.

6

Time

Using adjectives like "secure", "free", "productive", "exciting", "easy", describe how you wait your daily life's time spent.

7

Work

Describe what kind of work you value and assess your skills to do the work you value. Define what you can compromise on.

8

Culture

List all your national, cultural, religious preferences and describe what's important to you or not.

9

Identity

Describe what you value in your looks, your role in society, and 3 words to describe yourself.

10

Body Values

What do you prefer in terms of physical activity, human touch, sex, and health?

11

Philosophy

What is your approach to life? Do you believe in destiny, soul mates, determinism, free-will, etc.? Do you have control or needs? Do you need deep thinking?